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hi im 22 and a virgin, i recently decided to take the next step in my relationship of four years wilth my bf and was going to have sex, it was a magical night, until it was time to do it i was really nervous and he tried to insert but kept pushing him away cuz it hurt so he didnt insert it as i would always moive him away as it hurt..does it mean im still a virgin or not as we gave upove up that nightand also relaised i wasnt ready as i thought i was.?? HELP!!
Good evening. Well it is a very common problem with females trying to have intercourse for the first time as the hymen is intact.If he did not penetrate inside, you are still a virgin. Being ready comes mentally and if you feel you need to take the next step you should. Next time , try using jellies or some other form of lubrication both over you and you partners private parts. It will help smoothen the insertion. Although it will be a bit painful initially, it will eventually wear off. I hope the information was useful.
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Good evening. Well it is a very common problem with females trying to have intercourse for the first time as the hymen is intact.If he did not penetrate inside, you are still a virgin. Being ready comes mentally and if you feel you need to take the next step you should. Next time , try using jellies or some other form of lubrication both over you and you partners private parts. It will help smoothen the insertion. Although it will be a bit painful initially, it will eventually wear off. I hope the information was useful.