I have had arthritis. But now my joints are so much worse other joints that use to not hurt are killing me. Actually there is not a joint on my body that does not really hurt. Along with that my muscles are killing me. All I want to do is stay on the couch because it hurts so much to get up. All muscles and joints are also weak. I a. Unsteady on my feet and have a hard time holding things like knives and forks. My hands are very weak. I lost my husband 4 months ago. I have been going through the loss of that plus the family hasn't spoken to me since he died . Grief and stress could be the culprit. But I am miserable. I have never felt like this before in. My life