My boyfriend insists on me reporting my weight to him on a weekly basis and my calorie intake to him on a daily basis. I even agreed to this deal back in July even though I don t like how I feel when I discuss this very sensitive topic with him. We have a long distance relationship of over 6 years. I am about 35 pounds overweight. He has always had a problem with my weight and has seen me at 218 pounds when we first met and at 142 pounds. Yes, I lost a lot of weight , but now I am at 170. I think this topic is the single most thing we argue about. I am about to throw in the towel because I don t know if he loves me and is concerned about my health, or if it is a control thing.