My battery may go flat but here goes. It is embarrasing. I am in a relationship for 7 years with a lovely man andI know he loves me. But he is not interested in sex at all..........We try but he cannot reach an orgasm, and gives up. I am very attractive, sexy, blonde and have heaps of compliments from other men but I have not been unfaithfull However, last night we had a big night out together at Burswood, I won a night in the intercontinental and we had a romantic dinner bla bla bla a bth together but still he could not make love to me. Now just one thing, this is not something that has happened gradually, I noticed strange behaviour when I first met him. Although we had lots of sex in the beginning it took him ages and sometimes even then it did not happen and after about a year it just deteriorated, We have had tests, My doctor says he has the libido of a 73 year old when we went to her . I have screamed, cried, threatened and now just give up. Because now it is just like pouring salt into the wound. He is not on medication. But he did smoke a lot of pot before he ment me