i have a red, fleshy thing clogging my urethra. it seems to be stuck on to the skin in the tip of the urethra. it wasnt there before and i havent had sex with anyone in over a year! it just randomly appeared. how do i get rid of this without surgery? what could this be? ive tried pullin at it thinkin its somethin stuck in there but it started to bleed it seemed to b attached to the skin. what do i do?