Had unprotected sex 20 yrs ago and myself and my expartner have arthritus and bone health problems, suspect a rare sexually transmitted disease, can u advise? Person I slept with did tell me at the time something about having a disease and I may have contracted it-after sex with him that is! I have had arthritus for 15 yrs, was diagnosed as osteo but recently dr suggested it may be rhematoid but havent had bloodtest to check rhematoid factor. Only remembered recently about the incident but I know the person I slept with has had arthritus type symptoms. I am in my 40's, 2 stone overweight, 5'2", apart from liver problems believe I am hitting the menopause because classic hormonal symptoms-sweats, forgetting words, weepiness etc.
don't know what else u need to know but am concerned about the arthritus pain.