I am wondering if there is a cream that could help me sooth my vagina. It feels raw, like it is chaffed. I am in a new relationship, for over a year now. He likes to have intercourse 2 times a day. This is not normal for me, so I am not sure if the frequency is an issue. I am 50 and he is 52. We have also started riding bikes, and my seat is extremely skinny. So, it hurts when I ride the bike as well. I put Vaseline on it this morning, and it seemed to help. I am not sure if it is a new shower gel (Oil Olay) or the frequency or what.