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i am 44 female my partner is male 66. we seeing each other 6 years. what really upsets me is he watches a lot of porn. also i heard him talking to his 30yr old son about his sons sex life explicitly. they were even talking about his sons girl and making remarks. this to me is not right. when i spoke to him about it he just laughed. i really am concerned and would like some advice please. teresa
Hello welcome to HCM I understand your concern. I want to know few queries before so that I can help you better- 1 From how long he is addicted to pornography? And any other like addiction like alcohol ,smoking, drugs or gambling? 2 any kind of repetitive checking for example lock checking again and again, repetitive washing of hands? 3 any kind of overspending, decreased sleep or inflated self esteem or any risky behavior. Please let me know all these queries so that I can tell you what is his problem and treatment of it? Thanks. waiting for your reply. with regards Dr Aamir
Hi I think this the normal behavior of elderly male. Only thing is your partner should avoid overindulgence in thsese activities as this will exaggerate his sexual desire / fanaticism. I thing you should talk to him and try to convince him about excess involvement. TC
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Hello welcome to HCM I understand your concern. I want to know few queries before so that I can help you better- 1 From how long he is addicted to pornography? And any other like addiction like alcohol ,smoking, drugs or gambling? 2 any kind of repetitive checking for example lock checking again and again, repetitive washing of hands? 3 any kind of overspending, decreased sleep or inflated self esteem or any risky behavior. Please let me know all these queries so that I can tell you what is his problem and treatment of it? Thanks. waiting for your reply. with regards Dr Aamir