Hello Thanks for your query,based on the facts that you have posted it appears that you have doubts about size and girth of your penis and your sexual potency .Please note that size and girth of the penis in flaccid state has no significance at all. It is the hardness on erection that is important for enjoyable sex . Following measure will help you to boost up your confidence and getting good erection.and enjoy sex.. 1) Practice regular exercise for 45 minutes followed by meditation for 1/2 an hour in the morning. 2) Take high protein diet rich in vegetables and fruits and Vitamin A,C,D,E.and Zinc 3)Take anti oxidants like Almonds 5-6 everyday.. 4) Avoid alcohol and smoking.. Dr.Patil.