idk what to do its red with white around it help please ok so i noticed what apeared to be a small pimple on my vagina but the outide of the lip near my thigh i thought because it wasent ready i would wait today i checked it and it looks like instead of being a white head there is white around it instead what is this and should i be worried i shave there sometimes so could it be an ingrone hair but im also sexual active but i have been with this guy for a long time and nothing has every happened so i dont know what to think