Hello and welcome to Healthcare Magic. Thanks for your query. I understand that you are concerned about your husband s sexual problems. From the description of your symptoms it appears that your husband is suffering from erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation. Now, there can be a variety of causes for these problems - both medical causes as well as psychological causes. So, the first and most important step in management is proper evaluation. This will include a detailed medical, sexual, personal and social history, a thorough physical examination and certain investigations, as per the necessity. So, I would advise you to take him to a Sexologist for a detailed evaluation and further treatment. Wish you all the best. Regards, Dr. Jonas Sundarakumar Consultant Psychiatrist