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How To Reduce The Pain During Sex And How To Do It?
I am male,27, virgin and we (me and my wife) are going to have our first time. I dont know can I reduce her pain and also how to find the case and to do it up until now we have done it oral and just through rubbing not insertion I think we are not mentally ready for it. thanks
Hello Do n,t wait till you are mentally ready because the wait can be endless. You can try a lubricating gel like v moist but if the pain persists or you can't enter, consult a qualified sexologist Dr Saatiish Jhuntrraa
hi dear, don't be worried about it.you can reduce her pain by doing lots of foreplay before you enter her.as during foreplay she may reach peak and may ejaculate once ,you can enter her in next round.keep some lubricant with you and use condom.there may be slight pain but more you think about pain more you may feel ,so don't think too much about pain.
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How To Reduce The Pain During Sex And How To Do It?
Hello Do n,t wait till you are mentally ready because the wait can be endless. You can try a lubricating gel like v moist but if the pain persists or you can t enter, consult a qualified sexologist Dr Saatiish Jhuntrraa