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good day Doctor, i m a man 27years old and will be getting married to a lady of 25years, i v never had sex and she told me she s a virgin too. now i m faced with the challenge of how to disvirgin her without pains and other complications when we get married soon. your advice please
hiii dear pain is inevitable in virgins because of hymen that are present in vagina pain occurs due to tear of it
but make her vagina more lubricated gradually dilate her vagina with finger use lubricated condom to decease frictions all this will help you to make her painless but slight pain is always there no need to worry that pain is pleasurable when both of you doing this act first time so enjoy and dont think much thank you
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How To Have First Night Without Pain?
hiii dear pain is inevitable in virgins because of hymen that are present in vagina pain occurs due to tear of it but make her vagina more lubricated gradually dilate her vagina with finger use lubricated condom to decease frictions all this will help you to make her painless but slight pain is always there no need to worry that pain is pleasurable when both of you doing this act first time so enjoy and dont think much thank you