Hello Dear, Thank you for writing about your query to HCM, The liquid comes before ejaculate is nothing but you may say its pre-come/pre-ejaculate. Pre-come/pre-ejaculate is a small amount of fluid that leaks from a man s penis during foreplay or while thinking anything about sex while you getting excited. Its a oily fluid with no color which comes out of penis. Masturbation is not bad habit but as you describe in 3-4 times a day is really bad habit. You have to control your sex feelings while talking to your girlfriend. Or also you could talk on some other topic that would not excite your sex feelings, this could helpful to you. Hope you will find this helpful. Thanks & Regards, Dr. Gaurav Prajapati