Hello. My husband had a year long affair. He told me of it this January and broke it off then. We renewed our vows. However, the affair started again(we were living in separate countriees). We resumed living together in the country in which he had the affair(he is on a work permit there. I was having problems getting a permit, hence the year long separation) in April of this year. To shorten the tale, upon breaking up with the lady, he ended up chasing her with a knife. He did her no harm but it is now a court case. He was diagnosed by a psychiatrist as having chronic anxiety and moderate depression. My main concern is that he is having homicidal thoughts and suicidal ones too. How does he overcome them? the court has referred him to community rehabilitation which he is to start this week. Im hoping this will help. Its a really trying time for me. How do I cope?