Hello doctor, I grew up in USA but am of South Asian descent and have dark skin. I like my appearance and have always felt happy about myself largely because I was lucky enough to not have been raised in South Asa. But my mother is insisting that I should marry a south Asian, and I know my self-esteem will slowly crumble. How do I keep myself out of this depression? I feel like I should just start seeking antidepressants now because my mother is so insistent that I marry into this ridiculous culture.