Hi doctor, We are going to psychiatrist for before divorce counselling. My wife didn't allowed for sex and telling complaint one me and stating that i didn't tried and i have problem. I hope she loved some one and still having contact with him. My friend informed that during counseling they will apply balm on forehead and will give a tablet before counselling. May i know the use of tablet and balm. Is it possible to get true in her mind. Please advise.