Good afternoon,

I have never heard about anyone else having this problem so I'm hoping you would be able to answer me. I am 22 year old female and have never in my life experiences orgasm. I have been sexually active since 17, had 4 sex partners, am in a commited and loving relationship of 2 years. I trust my partner and am very attracted to him but it just never seems to go all the way. Our sex is great and I enjoy it and want to have it but whenever I get close it becomes too intense and I either want to stop or subconciously distract myself. I've tried it on my own and we've tried tying me up so I cannot stop but it would just become unpleasant once I got close.
Does this happen? Is there something else I could try to overcome this problem?
Thank you very much for your answer.