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Going Through Emotional Trauma Due A Relationship

I have been involved in a relationship where the other person communicates very little, and is anti social. It is up to me to make all arrangements to do anything social ( and mostly this includes drinking alcohol)... If anything goes wrong, or I change my mind about going after making plans, my partner becomes very upset. I feel like I cannot talk to anyone or my partner gets upset. I am exasperated, and have decided I cannot deal with this anymore and have told him to get some counselling and to find a woman who is deaf and dumb to fulfill his needs. Because of my critisicms lately, and we just got back from a holiday, he spent 4 days not speaking to me, and that made me even more upset. I have had it and think we should part, and last night he disagreed, but today is in agreement as I am still upset with the whole situation. What should I do ? keep walking.... and find someone else to befriend (I am 63 and he is 62) I am divorced since 1991 and he is widowed for under 1 year.
Tue, 1 Apr 2014
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Welcome to HCM
We understand your concerns

I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. You are 63 and you had almost enough. Means enough is enough. You know what is life and what it means to be separated. In this case, I don't think you have any emotional togetherness. Even if it is there, it should be negligible. Emotional attachment is supposed to be with those people who loves you, show affection to you. You do not have to carry on like this because you need enjoyment at this period, not stress. I think this stress, is due to your wrong decision. Take the right step.

For stress, please post a direct question to me in this website. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. I shall prescribe some psychotherapy techniques which should help you cure your condition.

Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications.
Good luck.
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Going Through Emotional Trauma Due A Relationship

Dear Welcome to HCM We understand your concerns I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. You are 63 and you had almost enough. Means enough is enough. You know what is life and what it means to be separated. In this case, I don t think you have any emotional togetherness. Even if it is there, it should be negligible. Emotional attachment is supposed to be with those people who loves you, show affection to you. You do not have to carry on like this because you need enjoyment at this period, not stress. I think this stress, is due to your wrong decision. Take the right step. For stress, please post a direct question to me in this website. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. I shall prescribe some psychotherapy techniques which should help you cure your condition. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications. Good luck.