hello and welcome to health care magic,
I know it may be scary to see the instruments which ENT surgeons use but believe me in good hands they are the safest.
In any case you must get the bud removed as it will definitely cause infection and also foreign body reaction.
If you are anxious you can ask your doctor to give a mild sedation or even anesthesia
If you need further help get back to me, I have removed close to four thousand such foreign bodies!
Dr Sriram Nathan