I had a total hysterectomy in January and had cancer, without any more treatments because they got it all. However, I am going through Menopause and I d like to know a few things. I have weakness in my arms and legs and I m dizzy a lot. My ears do feel funny, but I ve always had trouble with ear infections. I have gained about 10 pounds and I hate it. I have bipolar and I m depressed a lot. I ve tried to tell my doctor about these things, but he s just happy that the cancer hasn t returned. I tell him the symptoms that I m having and he tells me that it s all wives tales and that I shouldn t be going through these things. I have Diabetes too, and in the past two years I have lost 60 pounds and I m very upset that I ve gained some back. Is this all normal for going through Menopause? Can you help me?