Thanks for contacting HCM with your medical question. You are concerned that masturbating will affect your marriage and sex life. Masturbation is a normal thing men do. Excessive masturbation can lead to less interest in having sex with your partner and lead to poor relationships. There fore, i recommend that you reduce your masturbation and focus more attention on your wife and your relationship. Medically masturbation can lead to low sperm counts and infertility. If you are having troubling getting your wife pregnant then reducing masturbation may improve your chances of pregnancy. Hope this answers your question. Please contact us again with your medical concerns and questions