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Diagnosed With Depression. Getting Emotional Over Anything. Any Advice?

Hi there... I was diagnosed with depression about 5 or 6 years ago when my relationship ended with my wife putting a restraining order on me and taking my 5 year old daughter, which I ve never seen again.. I breached the restraining order by texting her and asking her where my daughter was, and ended up doing 6 months jail because of it... Lost my business and my houses and basicly my whole life was shattered... Ok... that s a bit of history, and I ve tried to move on... My question is this.... Every time I see something on TV that s sad, I start crying... This never used to happen before.. A natural disaster on the news, someone getting bashed, a puppy getting ran over... Doesn t matter what it is, my eyes start watering and tears start rolling down my face... Is this still all part of depression? How and when is this going to stop.. I get emotional over anything... Not so much as anyone knows or my girlfriend notices or anything, but its not normal, I know that... I m 47 years old, have heaps of tattoo s and ride a Harley, so I m not a wimpy type of bloke...(or I never used to be anyways).. But now I back down from confrontation, have very little interest in much at all, and don t really care about much at all these days... (which is very unlike how I was pre 2007.. Is this it for me? Am I going to be like this for the rest of my life? Or is there something I can do about it? They say time heals all wounds, but its been 6 years now, and although I m 500% better than what I was, I m still miles away from being happy, or even taking an interest in anything.. I ve been suicidal before, and I know how stupid those thoughts are, but after 6 years of this shit, with no light at the end of the tunnel in sight, are these stupid thoughts actually stupid? I had the best life on the planet up until 40 years old, so I m kinda of the opinion that, that will do me, and its like I feel that its time to bail out... Pretty deep aye... Anyways... Have you got any advice?
Fri, 15 Nov 2013
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Welcome to HCM!
Reading your question , rather a story of your life reveals many stressors which have ultimately led to depression. The symptoms of getting sentimental, crying easily, avoiding confrontation, not able to enjoy and unable to be happy about most of things in life are suggestive of depressive disorder. you have not mentioned if you are currently on any treatment for the same or not, but from my clinical experience I can say for sure that taking medicines will surely be helpful.

I would advice you to see a psychiatrist, he/ she may give you medicines and side- by - side one can choose for therapy sessions. I think you need both. With the treatment you will Not Remain the Same and YOUR LIFE WILL IMPROVE.

It is unlikely to stop on its own, taking that already 6 years have passed and you have shown improvement but a lot still there.....this has rather become chronic major depressive disorder. It may become weak with passing years but you will unnecessarily waste major time of your life, which can be helped with properly planned treatment.

please donot loose Hope, it is certainly NOT THE END, it is a treatable condition. The only condition is that you should meet a psychiatrist.

Usually, I have seen sertraline in dose of 25-100 mg showing good results in two to three weeks.

I hope the reply is helpful to you

Please feel free to ask more questions regarding this.
Dr. Manisha Gopal
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Diagnosed With Depression. Getting Emotional Over Anything. Any Advice?

Welcome to HCM! Reading your question , rather a story of your life reveals many stressors which have ultimately led to depression. The symptoms of getting sentimental, crying easily, avoiding confrontation, not able to enjoy and unable to be happy about most of things in life are suggestive of depressive disorder. you have not mentioned if you are currently on any treatment for the same or not, but from my clinical experience I can say for sure that taking medicines will surely be helpful. I would advice you to see a psychiatrist, he/ she may give you medicines and side- by - side one can choose for therapy sessions. I think you need both. With the treatment you will Not Remain the Same and YOUR LIFE WILL IMPROVE. It is unlikely to stop on its own, taking that already 6 years have passed and you have shown improvement but a lot still there.....this has rather become chronic major depressive disorder. It may become weak with passing years but you will unnecessarily waste major time of your life, which can be helped with properly planned treatment. please donot loose Hope, it is certainly NOT THE END, it is a treatable condition. The only condition is that you should meet a psychiatrist. Usually, I have seen sertraline in dose of 25-100 mg showing good results in two to three weeks. I hope the reply is helpful to you Please feel free to ask more questions regarding this. Dr. Manisha Gopal