Hi I have a few questions. I'm a bit scared right now. I had oral sex with a male and I was pretty rough on him, if you will, and it was for a good period of time as well. My uvula is swollen and has a red jellyish like substance hanging from it, it does not come off, it does not hurt, but my uvula appears to be quite swollen and touches my tounge. This happened almost immediately after the oral sex. Could the penis just have irritated my uvula? Could this be an STI? What can I do to solve this?!