i am 64 years old and not in great health. recently i noticed a bulbous growth under my uretha at the opening of my vagina . it is about the size of a dime and fleshy .i put on sterile gloves and felt it. it was sore. i have not bothered it any further. can you help. i saw a p.a. in clinic. he asked me if i wanted to go to a urologist . my health has been so compromised for three years i am scared.