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Posted on Sun, 18 Dec 2022
Question: i had been to a bar where girls come and drink with you. i sat with one of the girls. there was no sex in any form, no genital to genital contact nor hand with genital contact. there was no lip kiss. we only engaged in hugging, a little foreplay and a kiss on the forehead. given this is there any chance of any STI including hiv.
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Answered by Dr. Shyam B. Kale (5 hours later)
Brief Answer:
No there is no chance of STI or HIV in your case.

Detailed Answer:
Hello,

I have gone through your query and here is my advice .

As per your history, you were not involved in any sort of direct penetrative sex so there is no chance of getting any kind of STI. Just hugging and kissing does not cause to spread STDs , direct contact through blood or body fluids can only cause them to spread.

So ,you need not to worry at all and can relax, because you are absolutely safe and risk free from HIV or any other STI, and no testing is required in your case.

Hope I have answered your query , let me know if I can assist you further.

Take care.

Regards,
Dr Shyam XXXXXXX
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Saisudha Kotla
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Follow up: Dr. Shyam B. Kale (34 hours later)
Dear Dr XXXXXXX Thank You for allaying my concerns. There is so much misinformation online that it really becomes difficult to believe what is out there. As I confirmed we were fully clothed therefore there was no physical contact with genital organs. Trust i can move forward without the need for a PEP or testing. may i use this opportunity to clarify that sexually only unprotected anal or vaginal sex can lead to sti or hiv. other forms of non penetrating sexual expression like kissing, hugging, handjob, forttage would be considered as safer options. i am led to believe even receiving oral is low risk (as compared to giver is higher risk). would seek your guidance thank you for this wonderful service . god bless you. with humility Sanjay
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Answered by Dr. Shyam B. Kale (1 hour later)
Brief Answer:
Please see the detailed answer below...

Detailed Answer:
Hello,

Glad to know that your concerns are clarified and you feel relived.

As you were fully clothed and there was no direct contact of genitals so you are risk free from STI..

As per your further concern receiving oral is at very low risk unless there is any open wound on your contacting parts and body fluids or blood comes in direct contact.

You need not to worry..as you are at no risk.please be relaxed .
Take care

Regards,
Dr Shyam XXXXXXX
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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Nagamani Ng
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I Had Been To A Bar Where Girls Come And

Brief Answer: No there is no chance of STI or HIV in your case. Detailed Answer: Hello, I have gone through your query and here is my advice . As per your history, you were not involved in any sort of direct penetrative sex so there is no chance of getting any kind of STI. Just hugging and kissing does not cause to spread STDs , direct contact through blood or body fluids can only cause them to spread. So ,you need not to worry at all and can relax, because you are absolutely safe and risk free from HIV or any other STI, and no testing is required in your case. Hope I have answered your query , let me know if I can assist you further. Take care. Regards, Dr Shyam XXXXXXX