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Will Masturbation Cause Any Harm To Sexual Life?
Question: Hi Doctors, I am 29 year old guy. I have been masturbation since the age of 14 . I do this in different way . I rub my penis against the bed .I have never masturbated using hands. My penis is loose and even my testicle are also loose. I can not masturbated using hand. If I use hand then I could not satisfy myself even after 20 min .But rubbing my peins with bed I get orgasm.. Is it normal ? Will I be able to do normal sex ? I am worried about it.
Brief Answer:
Natural Act. Stop thinking
Detailed Answer:
Dear Friend.
Hi , I am Dr Anshul Varshney , I have read your query in detail , I understand your concern.
See, i can assure you one thing that Masturbation will not cause a direct harm to your sexual life ever , the harm you can have is by thinking all this.
Trust me , masturbation is a natural act by humans , everyone does it.
It does not make you weak , it doesn't interferes with your sexual life later.
Yes , excess of anything is bad. So , you should masterbate in moderation , that is it should not affect your routine life , your work , your studies.
Performing during actual sex and giving pleasure to your partner is related to so many factors like your feelings for the partner , your confidence.
If you will keep feeling that you won't be able to perform because you used to masturbate , you will definitely have problem in performing.
Trust me , stop thinking all this. Do not take any medicines for this purpose , do not read irrelevant things on google. This is natural act ,you will perform well naturally.
Let me tell you that everyone has loose testicles and slightly deviated penis.
It is just NO ONE accepts this. So , we feel we are abnormal , when we have wrong informations.
Since you masterbate means you get erection , and if you have erection , then there is no problem.
This is my personal opinion based on details available here. If you have any further query, you may please ask me.
Stay Healthy.
Dr Anshul Varshney , MD
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
Hi Doctor XXXXXXX ,
Thanks for clarification. Still one thing in mind why I could not get orgasm with hand , but lying rubbing penis I get orgasm easily ....hope nothing wrong in rubbing .. is it becuase I rub hard with bed or use hand gently ?
Brief Answer:
That's a way of masterbation
Detailed Answer:
Dear Friend.
It is all state of our mind. You enjoy rubbing on bed a lot , that's why you get orgasm in that way only.
A lot people do that , you are not the only one!!!!!
Relax , as such there is no problem in doing that until and unless you harm your genitalia by forceful rubbing and bruising and getting an infection.
Soft words , talks , and even masterbation are never harmful!
Hope you understand what i mean.
If you don't have a further query , you may please close the discussion and rate it.
And if you have any query , i am here to help you my best.
Stay Healthy
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
Hi Doctor,
Thanks for your clarification. One more question .
When I ejaculate , it is just come out not with speed but slowly .Its normal right ?
When I rub my peinis with bed first time and ejaculate , then when again after sometime(2 hrs) when I get erection there is little pain in my penis but after some hours I when I get erection again I do not feel pain . Is this normal ?
Brief Answer:
Absolutely Normal.
Detailed Answer:
Dear Friend.
Welcome again.
Both the things you have asked are absolutely normal.
I would like to tell you that if you don't masturbate for many days, you will get a collection of semen which would get out wth high pressure when you masturbate. But when you masturbate frequently, that pressure is naturally not there.
So, stop thinking, everything you are experiencing is ABSOLUTELY normal.
If you have any further query, please ask me, else please close the discussion and rate it with your valuable comments about the advice , me and the website.
Stay Healthy.
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Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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