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Will Masturbation Affect Sexual Life After Marriage?

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Posted on Fri, 26 Jun 2015
Question: hii.. i am 18 and half years boy.. i mansturbate 5 to 6 times per day from last 2 years... and i start it at the age of 16... its right or wrong.. it have any wrong effect on my sexual life?..please suggest me.
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Answered by Dr. Chintan Solanki (1 hour later)
Brief Answer:
not bad effects on sex life, but reduce frequency if possible

Detailed Answer:
Hello Young man,

Thanks for writing to us.

First of all let me clarify something about masturbation.

Masturbation is natural and normal thing.It is done by 95% of the males in the world,mostly before marriage as well as when wife is away, in menses or pregnant after marriage. It is not at all harmful. Frequency of masturbation done by an individual varies from once a day to once a week. It depends upon individual libido, wish and timing. It neither causes any weakness nor any problem in sexual activity.

There is no normal frequency of masturbation by which we can define over masturbation.In general one act of masturbation requires 100-150 calories. So it is not so much energy consuming. But when person does the same at cost of routine work and daily life we can say it over masturbation. When person does continuous masturbation it can cause fatigue.This fatigue may lead to physical problem and reduce performance in other routine activities.

Your case: 5-6 times per day masturbation is unusual. I can say it is very high frequency. It consumes at least 700 calories per day. In your life if other aspects(social,study and routine activities) are normal and you are physically and psychologically completely fine you are absolutely normal. No need to worry.
Still I recommend to reduce frequency 1-3 times per day.

From above explanation understand your situation and let me know if you have any problem.

Feel free to discuss further.

Regards,

Dr.Chintan Solanki.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Follow up: Dr. Chintan Solanki (10 minutes later)
i have no any proplem.. just i am fear.i am physically feet. but some time i mansturbate 7 to 8 times but i am not tired and i am also absolutlt normal..and sugesst me for how to control it...can it decrease my capacity (stamina)
of sex.. can i speak in hindi.. my english is not good
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Answered by Dr. Chintan Solanki (3 hours later)
Brief Answer:
please describe your masturbation timing

Detailed Answer:
Hi,

Thanks for follow up. Your English is good enough for understanding. lekin aapko thik lage to aap hindi me bat XXXXXXX shakte ho.

You are fit then no need to worry.

Tell me some details:

- What are you doing ? study?

- Please describe your daily routine schedule.(pura din subah uthne ke bad rat tak kya kya krte ho or kab sote ho?)

- At which time do you masturbate? Where and how?

- Do you feel that your masturbation is compulsion?( masturbation XXXXXXX hi padta he? uske XXXXXXX nahi chalta?)

- How much maximum time has been there during which you did not masturbate? Any withdrawal symptoms?(aap sabse zyda kitne din tak XXXXXXX masturbation ke rhe ho? Or masturbation nhi kro to kya kya hota he?)

- Do you feel any discomfort in life due to masturbation?(jivan me masturbation ke XXXXXXX koi pareshani he?)

Hoping to hear from you soon.


Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Follow up: Dr. Chintan Solanki (21 hours later)
prepration of CA-CPT

7 XXXXXXX subah uthta hu.. aur rum par hi rahta hu. sudy me man nahi lag raha.. to phir mansturbation XXXXXXX acha lagta hai.. mansturbation hi karta hu... aur nasta bhi XXXXXXX leta hu. jab bhi time mila tab mansturbation XXXXXXX leta hu... study nahi ho paa rahi hai.. uska tention ata hai aur mai mansturbation XXXXXXX leta hu.

all time... subah utne ke bad se..to rat tak.. 6 to 7 time to hi jata hai..
mai study par coccentrare XXXXXXX chata hu.. par ho nahi raha... mai mansturbation ke bare me bhot socta hu.. 4 ungliyo se mansturbation karta hu.. ya phir 3 ungliyo se.

compulsion nahi hai.. mai kuch kam nahi karta isliye mai mansturbation karta hu.

3 din tak raha hu... mansturbation nahi karo to kuch nahi hota hai..

koi bhi parsshani nahi hai...
i think my penis thoda sa ekdam thoda sa ek side me zuk ta hai.. ek dam thoda sa. jub wo erect hota hai.. us se koi problem to nahi hogi na...
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Answered by Dr. Chintan Solanki (6 hours later)
Brief Answer:
you are addicted to masturbation likely,slight bent erect penis is normal

Detailed Answer:
Hi,

Thanks for information.

Tumhari masturbation ki habit ki vajah se tumhari study disturb ho rhi he. Tum tension se bachne k liye masturbation karte ho ye nahi hona chahiye.
Ek week beena masturbation ke rehne ka try kro. Fir din me do bar koi fix time masturbation XXXXXXX chalu kro us se jyada nahi. Agar aisa nhi XXXXXXX shkate ho to please kisi psychiatrist se XXXXXXX XXXXXXX Tumhari detail counseling karni jaruri he. jarurat pde to is aadat ko chhodne ke liye dava bhi ho XXXXXXX he.

Penis khada hone k bad almost 90% logo me thoda zukta he(tedha rehta he). Yeh ekdam normal he. Wo tedhapan painful ho ya 25 degree se jyada ho to hi treatment ki zarurat he.

Take care.

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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Will Masturbation Affect Sexual Life After Marriage?

Brief Answer: not bad effects on sex life, but reduce frequency if possible Detailed Answer: Hello Young man, Thanks for writing to us. First of all let me clarify something about masturbation. Masturbation is natural and normal thing.It is done by 95% of the males in the world,mostly before marriage as well as when wife is away, in menses or pregnant after marriage. It is not at all harmful. Frequency of masturbation done by an individual varies from once a day to once a week. It depends upon individual libido, wish and timing. It neither causes any weakness nor any problem in sexual activity. There is no normal frequency of masturbation by which we can define over masturbation.In general one act of masturbation requires 100-150 calories. So it is not so much energy consuming. But when person does the same at cost of routine work and daily life we can say it over masturbation. When person does continuous masturbation it can cause fatigue.This fatigue may lead to physical problem and reduce performance in other routine activities. Your case: 5-6 times per day masturbation is unusual. I can say it is very high frequency. It consumes at least 700 calories per day. In your life if other aspects(social,study and routine activities) are normal and you are physically and psychologically completely fine you are absolutely normal. No need to worry. Still I recommend to reduce frequency 1-3 times per day. From above explanation understand your situation and let me know if you have any problem. Feel free to discuss further. Regards, Dr.Chintan Solanki.