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Suggest Treatment For Obsessive Behaviour

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Posted on Fri, 27 Mar 2015
Question: husband of 20 years is now jealous of all my ex boyfriends i had sex with asking me what did i do with them? told him i could care less about those people. he seems like a different person. he said he still wants to be here. what the hell is going on?? he wont let this go its like hes obsessed with this info
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Answered by Dr. Muhammad Ali Rauf (1 hour later)
Brief Answer:
He is becoming possessive; counsel him

Detailed Answer:
Hello

My name is Dr Muhammad Ali Rauf & i will look into your problem.

I have gone through your query and would try to help you in the best possible way. Some times husband becomes over possessive regarding past affairs. In this aspect i would suggest you to counsel him with affection. You can ask him to go over a dinner at some peaceful place and discuss this matter. Ask him why all of a sudden he wants to know about this. If there are some doubts then you can clear them in this way. If this does not help then you two can get an appointment for a psychologist. They will arrange different psych therapies that may help to resolve the issues in your relationship. Try not to ignore or scold him. Doing this will only harm the relation.

Hope I have answered your query. If you have any further questions I will be happy to help if not then don't forget to close the discussion and rate it.
Wishing you good health !!
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Dr. Muhammad Ali Rauf

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Suggest Treatment For Obsessive Behaviour

Brief Answer: He is becoming possessive; counsel him Detailed Answer: Hello My name is Dr Muhammad Ali Rauf & i will look into your problem. I have gone through your query and would try to help you in the best possible way. Some times husband becomes over possessive regarding past affairs. In this aspect i would suggest you to counsel him with affection. You can ask him to go over a dinner at some peaceful place and discuss this matter. Ask him why all of a sudden he wants to know about this. If there are some doubts then you can clear them in this way. If this does not help then you two can get an appointment for a psychologist. They will arrange different psych therapies that may help to resolve the issues in your relationship. Try not to ignore or scold him. Doing this will only harm the relation. Hope I have answered your query. If you have any further questions I will be happy to help if not then don't forget to close the discussion and rate it. Wishing you good health !!