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Question: Dear Doctor,
I am 34 yrs old male.
I have an issue with erection.
Earlier when I was 26 yrs old, I could enjoy an absolutely healthy intercourse with my girlfriend.... We Used to do it almost 2ce a day for almost 2 yrs.
Now, at the age of 34, although I feel attracted to my wife, and get an erection, whenever I try intercourse, my penis becomes soft, and I find it difficult to insert.
Please suggest some way to maintain erection and firmness of my penis during intercourse, as my wife is showing dissatisfaction.
Pls Note,:
Even today, I can masturbate easily and enjoy it.
I have been masturbating since more than. Last 10 years almost daily.
I have been an occasional alcohol drinker since last 10 years, (2 pegs on an average daily).
I have also been a frequent smoker, with an Average of 3 to 4 cigarettes daily since last 10 years.
By health, I am all fine, and do occasional freehand body exercises.
I am 34 yrs old male.
I have an issue with erection.
Earlier when I was 26 yrs old, I could enjoy an absolutely healthy intercourse with my girlfriend.... We Used to do it almost 2ce a day for almost 2 yrs.
Now, at the age of 34, although I feel attracted to my wife, and get an erection, whenever I try intercourse, my penis becomes soft, and I find it difficult to insert.
Please suggest some way to maintain erection and firmness of my penis during intercourse, as my wife is showing dissatisfaction.
Pls Note,:
Even today, I can masturbate easily and enjoy it.
I have been masturbating since more than. Last 10 years almost daily.
I have been an occasional alcohol drinker since last 10 years, (2 pegs on an average daily).
I have also been a frequent smoker, with an Average of 3 to 4 cigarettes daily since last 10 years.
By health, I am all fine, and do occasional freehand body exercises.
Brief Answer:
There is need to stop alcohol and smoking
Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Thanks for using Healthcaremnmagic.
I read your query and understand your concerns.
First of all I must reemphasise it gain that this is psychogenic erectyle dysfunction and in reality there is no problem with your system.
Second if you are still smoking or using alcohol it needs to be stopped.
Third I have delineated the importance of failure in life and its applicability in sexual life. Never ever take your failure in sexual life as permanent. They are norm.
Fourthly there is need for psychological assistance. As per the description there are clear indication that you will be helped enormously when you see a sex therapist or psychiatrist.
I hope this helps you.
If you have more questions feel free to write back to me.
Thanks and regards.
There is need to stop alcohol and smoking
Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Thanks for using Healthcaremnmagic.
I read your query and understand your concerns.
First of all I must reemphasise it gain that this is psychogenic erectyle dysfunction and in reality there is no problem with your system.
Second if you are still smoking or using alcohol it needs to be stopped.
Third I have delineated the importance of failure in life and its applicability in sexual life. Never ever take your failure in sexual life as permanent. They are norm.
Fourthly there is need for psychological assistance. As per the description there are clear indication that you will be helped enormously when you see a sex therapist or psychiatrist.
I hope this helps you.
If you have more questions feel free to write back to me.
Thanks and regards.
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Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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