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Posted on Mon, 5 Jan 2015
Question: I am so sad and confused. I dont think he even cares about me anymore or not. How could he be so unresponsive and insensitive if he cares at all about me? I cant help him if I'm not here. What good will an email do? I am so sad I dont want to do anything anymore. I dont want to go to Israel without him. I just dont know what to do anymore.....
Am too sad. Havent any hope anymore...am just wanting to lie in bed...
My son tried emailing him but he blocked it. I don't know what to think now....
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Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (1 hour later)
Brief Answer:
Keep one thing in mind he doesn't have insight

Detailed Answer:
Hello again

It seems that you are currently under acute stress reaction. How can you decide whether he cares about you or not, when he himself is not aware of his actions. He is having paranoid ideas against you and at this stage he can't even decide, if he is doing right or wrong. He is blocking the XXXXXXX due to his delusional affect. As we have discussed earlier also give him time. Don't mail him and also ask your son to not to mail him, repeated XXXXXXX can be mistaken as if you are disturbing his thought process. This will make his delusion more firms only. Due to this he is repeatedly blocking the XXXXXXX So we can't judge him unresponsive or insensitive.

Yes a mail will do nothing, but our basic aim is to realize your presence only if he start improving. May be in a month if he wouldn't disturbed, he gain some insight.

So ultimately you are left with one option that is to wait. Just keep your optimism alive and let the God decide the final outcome.


If still not sure and are distressed clear your doubts in follow up question.

Thanks
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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Bhagyalaxmi Nalaparaju
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Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi

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Suggest Treatment For Confusion And Stress

Brief Answer: Keep one thing in mind he doesn't have insight Detailed Answer: Hello again It seems that you are currently under acute stress reaction. How can you decide whether he cares about you or not, when he himself is not aware of his actions. He is having paranoid ideas against you and at this stage he can't even decide, if he is doing right or wrong. He is blocking the XXXXXXX due to his delusional affect. As we have discussed earlier also give him time. Don't mail him and also ask your son to not to mail him, repeated XXXXXXX can be mistaken as if you are disturbing his thought process. This will make his delusion more firms only. Due to this he is repeatedly blocking the XXXXXXX So we can't judge him unresponsive or insensitive. Yes a mail will do nothing, but our basic aim is to realize your presence only if he start improving. May be in a month if he wouldn't disturbed, he gain some insight. So ultimately you are left with one option that is to wait. Just keep your optimism alive and let the God decide the final outcome. If still not sure and are distressed clear your doubts in follow up question. Thanks