Brief Answer:
evaluation needed to search cause of his disinterest in sex,medicines help

Detailed Answer:
Hi XXXX,

Thanks for writing to us.

I appreciate your action to ask for help of such problem.

Your problem is that your husband has no interest in sex.

Yes there are medicines which can help to improve libido and sex power. 5- PDE inhibitor group of medicines can help.

But first of all reason for such problem to be found out.

Let me know some details.

Since when his interest in sex has lost? 5 years of marriage is pretty long period.

There is much age difference between you.May I know reasons for that?

How is emotional relationship between you?

What is his and your occupation? How much time do you both spend together?

Also tell education of him and yours.

Why is there no issue/child yet after 5 years? Is there any infertility/physical problem in him?

How often do you try for sex? What does he respond when you ask for sex?

Have you ever asked him reason for his no interest in sex? What does his say?

Waiting for your reply to help you further.

Regards,
Dr.Chintan Solanki.

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Brief Answer:
Medication would not help likely, he needs evaluation

Detailed Answer:
Hello XXXX,

Thanks for follow up.

I can not understand that why did you wait for 5 years for this problem.

You can give above mentioned medicine at dinner after consulting some doctor as these are the prescription medicines.But I do not think this will help.

Frankly speaking you should follow below mentioned approach.

You mentioned that he simply denies for sex when you ask and not interested. The best explanation of this can only and only given by him.

He might be denying because of one or more of the following possibilities:

-his religious/orthodox beliefs regarding sex

-he has some physical/psychological problem which makes him incapable of doing
sex

-Any past bed experience of sex and he became scared of sex

-He may have some past love life and he is not bale to accept you subconsciously as a sex partner

One question comes in my mind that have you did not done anything until now in these five years for this problem?

First of all try to spend time with him apart form night on weekends and holidays.Try to notice(or you might be aware) what he likes and not. Try to attract him by making his favorite dishes, fulfilling his hobbies,changing your clothes what he likes, changing your make up and hair style what he likes. Try to go near to his heart and get information what is there in his mind.Or else convince him to visit doctor if he can not disclose the reason to you.

If you can not do this or if you have tried, just ask him forcefully what is the reason as this is your right to know by law being wife.

Even after that you can not get the result.Take help of any close relative or any close friend of him who is reliable and keep the matter confidential. Or you can ask someone at your parental side(sister,bhabhi,bhaiya ) to help you.

Hope this answers your concern.

Feel free to ask if more queries.
http://bit.ly/drchintansolanki

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Brief Answer:
I appreciate your love and patience for your husband.

Detailed Answer:
Hello XXXX,

I appreciate your love and patience for your husband. I can understand your feelings. But ultimately you have to do something what I have told in last answer.
It is not practical that because of fear of responsibility you do not have child.
Frankly speaking he needs evaluation by professional.
Final decision will be yours.
I have tried my best to help you.

Hope I have answered your query. If still any query there, I will be happy to answer. If not, you can close the discussion and if feasible give your feedback so I can improve service. In future you can contact me directly on this site if you wish with this link: http://bit.ly/drchintansolanki

Regards,
Dr.Chintan Solanki.

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