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Is Excessive Masturbation Harmful?

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Posted on Thu, 6 Oct 2016
Question: Alright so I have has this prablem for a long time, kind of. So I masturbate fairly often(about ones even other day sometimes everyday) And I have become climates to my hand. meaning I am only about to climax if jerking off or an unhealthy length of time spent with my partner. I would like to stop this from happening and actually be able to experience a climax without having to do it myself (if that makes sense) is there some way I can achieve this? it has been like this for about 6 months and I'm not sure if cutting back on masturbation or what should I do if I can do anything to go back to being able to achieve non-self induceded orgasim.
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Answered by Dr. Klarida Papaqako (3 hours later)
Brief Answer:
Tell your partner what you enjoy in bed

Detailed Answer:
Hello,

Thank you for using HCM to post your question.

I read carefully your question and I understand your concern.

Masturbation and sexual relationships have to do totally with what we want, how much we know what we want and how we communicate with our partner what we want.
Seems like you know yourself and you know how to enjoy it. There is nothing bad with masturbating that often, and doing it the way you do it. But you have to communicate that with your partner, and together you find the perfect way of sex that helps you reach orgasm and her way as well. For this you need maybe talk and lead her during intercourse, take your time in the begining and not judge yourself if you are failing on achieving it because sexual psychology its one of the most difficult ones.
There is no medication to help on this. Give yourself time, be open with your partner and enjoy each other.

Hope this is helpful.
Let me know if you need more clarifications. Otherwise please kindly close and rate the answer.

Regards,
Dr.Papaqako
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Is Excessive Masturbation Harmful?

Brief Answer: Tell your partner what you enjoy in bed Detailed Answer: Hello, Thank you for using HCM to post your question. I read carefully your question and I understand your concern. Masturbation and sexual relationships have to do totally with what we want, how much we know what we want and how we communicate with our partner what we want. Seems like you know yourself and you know how to enjoy it. There is nothing bad with masturbating that often, and doing it the way you do it. But you have to communicate that with your partner, and together you find the perfect way of sex that helps you reach orgasm and her way as well. For this you need maybe talk and lead her during intercourse, take your time in the begining and not judge yourself if you are failing on achieving it because sexual psychology its one of the most difficult ones. There is no medication to help on this. Give yourself time, be open with your partner and enjoy each other. Hope this is helpful. Let me know if you need more clarifications. Otherwise please kindly close and rate the answer. Regards, Dr.Papaqako