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I Had Sex With A Woman In Her 40 Date
Question: I had sex with a woman in her 40 date 092919(she was quite dirty, she smelled bad), she was having period, she also had a XXXXXXX hump. I got flacid and I think some vaginal fluid got interfered bettween condom and my penis because the condom got glued on my head.
Symptoms that I had:
-I slept for 5 hours after sex and wake up with pain into my stomach and no apetite
-I smelled blood everywhere coming from my body(I think from my nose) like a sickness
-I went running swimming and while in hydro massage I noticed that my nipples are not getting any excitment like ussual
-8 hours later I noticed that I have a white film on my tongue and some cracks are developing
-9 hours later I noticed that my prepuce is covering all my gland and my penis is getting smaller and smaller like hidding into foreskin. I masturbate and noticed that I have a pain while erect and my sperm was more glued like ussually.
Then I started to read about STD and saw that symptoms I have are related with HIV. My room was smelling like medication even I took none. I got anxious, I slept having nightmares, I could only sleep for 1 hour, then used my energy driving around and going to hospital to ask questions.
After 80 hours I started PEP medication, but few hours later I felt sweat coming from my body, and I had muscle pain as well thinking that this might be the seroconversion.
Then I flew and I noticed that I lost my smell and my taste(I ate forced, still no appetite) what was sweet I could not hold it into my mouth I had to spill it over.
I noticed I had also a crack sound anytime I opened my mouth by while, the sound was coming from my salivary glands. I went into a deppression having bad thoughts while flying.
Then I started to make some medical investigation. My lymphocites are very low 13.8 (20-55 range). Also I have a maxillary sinusitis but it seems to be an older problem according to doctors.
I went to psyhiatrist to try to treat my depression, he dosed me and putted me to bed but still can't have a proper sleep. All the nights since exposure I have convulsion like shievering, without lossing my constiousness.
Recently starting with 15 of october I have night sweats as well and starting with today diareea. According to what I m writting and experiencing all of them lead to HIV sympthomps which I am very afraid of.
My penis also got worse, foreskin has a inflamed red spot and the gland looks like is dyieng having some cracks also with red, white and purple spots and the head is burning by time to time but it's not paintfull. I did not wahsed my penis for few days and noticed like a white cottage cheese around it.
To conclude after almost 3 weeks, I still have no apetite, I still can't eat sweet, I lost like 10 pounds, I have a poor general health, always I feel like something is inside me if someone touches me I get scared, it's like an abnormal feeling like it's not my body anymore, my smell got better but still isn't there as it should, night sweats, shievering like convulsions and my penis has erectyle dysfunction and looks bad like a ulceration is starting.
Attached you'll find photos.
Symptoms that I had:
-I slept for 5 hours after sex and wake up with pain into my stomach and no apetite
-I smelled blood everywhere coming from my body(I think from my nose) like a sickness
-I went running swimming and while in hydro massage I noticed that my nipples are not getting any excitment like ussual
-8 hours later I noticed that I have a white film on my tongue and some cracks are developing
-9 hours later I noticed that my prepuce is covering all my gland and my penis is getting smaller and smaller like hidding into foreskin. I masturbate and noticed that I have a pain while erect and my sperm was more glued like ussually.
Then I started to read about STD and saw that symptoms I have are related with HIV. My room was smelling like medication even I took none. I got anxious, I slept having nightmares, I could only sleep for 1 hour, then used my energy driving around and going to hospital to ask questions.
After 80 hours I started PEP medication, but few hours later I felt sweat coming from my body, and I had muscle pain as well thinking that this might be the seroconversion.
Then I flew and I noticed that I lost my smell and my taste(I ate forced, still no appetite) what was sweet I could not hold it into my mouth I had to spill it over.
I noticed I had also a crack sound anytime I opened my mouth by while, the sound was coming from my salivary glands. I went into a deppression having bad thoughts while flying.
Then I started to make some medical investigation. My lymphocites are very low 13.8 (20-55 range). Also I have a maxillary sinusitis but it seems to be an older problem according to doctors.
I went to psyhiatrist to try to treat my depression, he dosed me and putted me to bed but still can't have a proper sleep. All the nights since exposure I have convulsion like shievering, without lossing my constiousness.
Recently starting with 15 of october I have night sweats as well and starting with today diareea. According to what I m writting and experiencing all of them lead to HIV sympthomps which I am very afraid of.
My penis also got worse, foreskin has a inflamed red spot and the gland looks like is dyieng having some cracks also with red, white and purple spots and the head is burning by time to time but it's not paintfull. I did not wahsed my penis for few days and noticed like a white cottage cheese around it.
To conclude after almost 3 weeks, I still have no apetite, I still can't eat sweet, I lost like 10 pounds, I have a poor general health, always I feel like something is inside me if someone touches me I get scared, it's like an abnormal feeling like it's not my body anymore, my smell got better but still isn't there as it should, night sweats, shievering like convulsions and my penis has erectyle dysfunction and looks bad like a ulceration is starting.
Attached you'll find photos.
Brief Answer:
Your symptoms are not related to HIV infection.
Detailed Answer:
Dear Alexbotea91,
Welcome to Ask a Doctor Service.
The symptoms you had mentioned started too early after the encounter which is not the case in HIV infection because acute retro-viral syndrome that is first clinical appearance of HIV symptoms also takes at-least 15 days to develop after contracting the infection so these symptoms are not related to HIV. I suggest you to consult any dermatologist as well as psychiatrist for evaluation of your symptoms to isolate the cause and follow the treatment as per the advice.
PEP is effective when started within 72 hours of risky encounter but you can complete it for 28 days. I think you have the fear or anxiety of having HIV so the best solution is to get tested for HIV and other STDs. As 3 weeks has already passed just wait for one more week and then go for 4th generation HIV Duos (Ag/ Ab) along with STD panel test to clear your doubts. Till the time calm down, try to forget the incidence and if any other help is required please let me know any time.
Thank You
Your symptoms are not related to HIV infection.
Detailed Answer:
Dear Alexbotea91,
Welcome to Ask a Doctor Service.
The symptoms you had mentioned started too early after the encounter which is not the case in HIV infection because acute retro-viral syndrome that is first clinical appearance of HIV symptoms also takes at-least 15 days to develop after contracting the infection so these symptoms are not related to HIV. I suggest you to consult any dermatologist as well as psychiatrist for evaluation of your symptoms to isolate the cause and follow the treatment as per the advice.
PEP is effective when started within 72 hours of risky encounter but you can complete it for 28 days. I think you have the fear or anxiety of having HIV so the best solution is to get tested for HIV and other STDs. As 3 weeks has already passed just wait for one more week and then go for 4th generation HIV Duos (Ag/ Ab) along with STD panel test to clear your doubts. Till the time calm down, try to forget the incidence and if any other help is required please let me know any time.
Thank You
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Vaishalee Punj
1.What about my penis showed in the photos?
2.Also I have a herniated vertebra, is the process faster is already some infection are in the body?
3.Also if the person had hiv/253657?iL=true" >Aids, the transmission is faster than HIV carry person?
2.Also I have a herniated vertebra, is the process faster is already some infection are in the body?
3.Also if the person had hiv/253657?iL=true" >Aids, the transmission is faster than HIV carry person?
Brief Answer:
Consult dermatologist for skin problem.
Detailed Answer:
Dear Alexbotea91,
Welcome back and thanks for follow-up.
I had seen the photos sent by you and I don't think there is any penile lesion r any other problem but still you feel something wrong then I already suggested to consult dermatologist. Herniated disc has no relation with HIV infection so don't think in one direction only.
AIDS is chronic, potentially life threatening disease caused by HIV virus and there is no such term like HIV carrier because once infected the patient will develop the symptoms as disease progress. Be relaxed and don't take too much stress or tension because you are not at risk.
Thank You
Consult dermatologist for skin problem.
Detailed Answer:
Dear Alexbotea91,
Welcome back and thanks for follow-up.
I had seen the photos sent by you and I don't think there is any penile lesion r any other problem but still you feel something wrong then I already suggested to consult dermatologist. Herniated disc has no relation with HIV infection so don't think in one direction only.
AIDS is chronic, potentially life threatening disease caused by HIV virus and there is no such term like HIV carrier because once infected the patient will develop the symptoms as disease progress. Be relaxed and don't take too much stress or tension because you are not at risk.
Thank You
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Dr. Kampana
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