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How Can One's Interest In You Be Identified Through Conversation On Social Media?

Posted on Thu, 10 Aug 2017

Question: Hi doctor, I just meant to ask a psychology question here...recently on facebook one of my male friend uploaded a mesmerizing photo of his eyes, so I facebook message him, "very mesmerizing eyes...I almost got electrocuted" he replied "should be eyes without energy". I replied "it still looks ok to me". he replied, "almost got electrocuted, means not yet electrocuted, means not enough electric".
the lingo "being electrocuted" means to attract. does he hopes to "electrocute" me which means having interest in me? Or it simply meant to be a joke or he just wants to electrocute others on facebook?

Answered by Dr. Ivo Ditah (1 hour later)

Brief Answer:
He means he was pleased with your comments!

Detailed Answer:
Hi and thanks for reaching out to us again.

This response means that he was pleased and excited about your comment. It in no way means he is trying to electrocute you or anyone else on Facebook.

I hope this clarifies your doubt. I wish you well. Feel free to follow up with me if need be.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Ivo Ditah (1 hour later)

when I shared with him that I had Liked his pics but he did not Liked mine, but Liked others, initially he told me he did not notice. but soon after he went to facebook to Liked mine. does this means anything?

Answered by Dr. Ivo Ditah (11 hours later)

Brief Answer:
It means he didn’t notice yours at first!

Detailed Answer:
Hi,

It means he might had missed out on your pictures initially and returned to when you alerted him. I believe he’s being genuine and sincere and truly respects the viewpoints and feelings of his friends. Beside, he’s honest with his comments.

I wish you well.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Ivo Ditah (11 hours later)

thanks for reply. yesterday I complimented him that I found him to have very nice smile and teeth, can film toothpaste advertisement. He asked me ,"do u wish to look for me to film?"

any meaning for this?

Answered by Dr. Ivo Ditah (47 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
I guess he means if you wish to meet him!

Detailed Answer:
Hi,

This to me is like asking whether you want to meet him. If I may ask, is he your friend and do you have any crush on him?

Waiting...

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Ivo Ditah (1 hour later)

he is my common friend that I had only known this year, we meet every Wednesdays and Saturdays for rehearsals for a mass performance that is scheduled on 9th August this year. thereafter, I would miss him if we don't meet up.

Yes, I have a crush on him

Answered by Dr. Ivo Ditah (37 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
I suggest you make him your friend!

Detailed Answer:
Hi,

I will suggest that you make him your friend. This will bring you closer to him and allow you to see whether he’s good fit for you. Also, it will give him the chance to appreciate you more. If you both feel it is okay to establish and build a relationship, then as adults you can start one and nurture.

I hope this helps. Let me know what you think about this.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar