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Dear Doctor, My Wife Is Very Short Tempered. She Gets
Question: Dear doctor,
My wife is very short tempered. She gets angry very easily she is always shouting at me even for small things. Bit she is very loving and affectionate person. Recently we are blessed with a girl baby. Now in tension of taking care of the baby she gets very angry at me often and scolds me even for small issues. Even though i know her very well and i can understand that only in tension of taking care of the baby she gets angry sometimes i too loose my temper and i am scolding her. This creates big issues between us and i am really worried about this. Recently she got very angry and i too got angry and said to her that she is very short tempered and that's why we are getting all these problems and shouted at her that all these fights are because of her short temper. She is now saying me that this is how she is and she is saying of need get divorce from me. I am very upset and i really don't know how to solve this problem
Please advice me on this.
Thanks.
My wife is very short tempered. She gets angry very easily she is always shouting at me even for small things. Bit she is very loving and affectionate person. Recently we are blessed with a girl baby. Now in tension of taking care of the baby she gets very angry at me often and scolds me even for small issues. Even though i know her very well and i can understand that only in tension of taking care of the baby she gets angry sometimes i too loose my temper and i am scolding her. This creates big issues between us and i am really worried about this. Recently she got very angry and i too got angry and said to her that she is very short tempered and that's why we are getting all these problems and shouted at her that all these fights are because of her short temper. She is now saying me that this is how she is and she is saying of need get divorce from me. I am very upset and i really don't know how to solve this problem
Please advice me on this.
Thanks.
Brief Answer:
Patience pays
Detailed Answer:
Dear Friend. Thanks for the question. Your wife could be short tempered. But not you. To advise her about anger ill effects and anger management, you should be extra patient.
Never be angry on her or on anything even though you are being tempted.
Follow this behavior pattern for at least 6 months. Then slowly try charging her behavior.
Patience pays
Detailed Answer:
Dear Friend. Thanks for the question. Your wife could be short tempered. But not you. To advise her about anger ill effects and anger management, you should be extra patient.
Never be angry on her or on anything even though you are being tempted.
Follow this behavior pattern for at least 6 months. Then slowly try charging her behavior.
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