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Emotionally And Physically Abused By Girlfriend. Solution ?
my nepheu is being emotionally and phisically abused by his girlfriend and mother of his 11 month old son. She has kept him away from the people who love him see what she is doing to him. What can I do to help him?
The latest thing that happened was, she was arrested for leaving her 4 year old daughter and baby in the car at night in the parking lot at wal mart to go inside to get a money gram. He put his bank account in the hole to bale her out and then acouple days later she posts on facebook that she bought her children wonderful birthday presents and their dead beat dads did not get them anything. He is the one who takes care of that baby. he is the only one with a job, he makes sure they are fed and have a roof over thier heads. he has been late for work to the point of getting written up because when its time to go to work she is not there to take the baby and he has to scramble to find someone in the family to take him. she has phisically attacked him, cheeted on him, and left him with the baby for two weeks while she traveled to another state. he is a very inteligent person why can't he see that she is not good for him or the baby? other family members have said things to him about the way she treats them and have been kept from seeing the baby by the mother. What can I do to help him understand he needs to get out of that relationship?
The latest thing that happened was, she was arrested for leaving her 4 year old daughter and baby in the car at night in the parking lot at wal mart to go inside to get a money gram. He put his bank account in the hole to bale her out and then acouple days later she posts on facebook that she bought her children wonderful birthday presents and their dead beat dads did not get them anything. He is the one who takes care of that baby. he is the only one with a job, he makes sure they are fed and have a roof over thier heads. he has been late for work to the point of getting written up because when its time to go to work she is not there to take the baby and he has to scramble to find someone in the family to take him. she has phisically attacked him, cheeted on him, and left him with the baby for two weeks while she traveled to another state. he is a very inteligent person why can't he see that she is not good for him or the baby? other family members have said things to him about the way she treats them and have been kept from seeing the baby by the mother. What can I do to help him understand he needs to get out of that relationship?
Mon, 16 Sep 2013
Hello
Thanks for using health care magic for posting your query.
I have gone through your query and I can understand what you are going through.
It's a social issue and it can have different perspectives. He is your nephew and hence you will feel bad for him but you should be ready to hear the other side as well. Your nephew is a grown-up and can take his own decisions. He has decided d to stay back and that could be for a reason.
The should meet a marriage counsellor.
Thanks and regards
Dr. Srikanth
Thanks for using health care magic for posting your query.
I have gone through your query and I can understand what you are going through.
It's a social issue and it can have different perspectives. He is your nephew and hence you will feel bad for him but you should be ready to hear the other side as well. Your nephew is a grown-up and can take his own decisions. He has decided d to stay back and that could be for a reason.
The should meet a marriage counsellor.
Thanks and regards
Dr. Srikanth
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