iHi, I am 17 and have been with my boyfriend for a year and a bit. I've only had sex with him, but have done other things (such as oral) with another guy before my current boyfriend. My boyfriend previously returned from a two week family vacation (and of course he did not cheat on me) and we had sex. The first time was good, but in the middle of the second I started feeling dryness and it started to hurt but I didn't think much of it. We've had sex a few times since then, and it has hurt almost like stinging, but I noticed after we did the first time I was bleeding a bit, but it was also just after my period was ending. it stopped, but I felt sore down there. I checked it out myself and noticed there are two cuts near the bottom part of my vaginal opening (just below the vagina and before the anus). they feel almost like paper cuts. they seem to be a little infected, almost look like there is some pus? and there is some dry skin near them. I'm almost positive the guy I was with before did not have herpes or a cold sore when he performed oral, and it was also quite a while ago. and I am positive my current boyfriend doesn't have herpes either. I've read lots of posts saying it could be herpes but I'm too scared to go the gyno to get tested, is there anyway it could be from dryness or friction and just became a bit infected? what should I do?