I think i suffer from retarded ejaculation i can ejaculate from masterbation and from sex within a couple minutes but not at all from oralis there anything i can do to help things along? My current gf and i aren t ready for intercourse but we give each other oral all the time..she gets really upset because she thinks she doesn t make me feel as good as i make her feel unless i ejaculate. To be honest Im getting worried something is really wrong with me. I want to experience this with her and i fear it may never happen..otherwise i enjoy her giving me oral just wish i could ejaculate from it.