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My girlfriend and I were getting intimate in the shower and she tried giving me head. I was really into it, but I lost my erection. Same thing happened today (2 days later). We were taking a bath that was very hot. We were getting intimate again and this time we got our and in bed. She tried giving me head again and again I was very into it, but lousy my erection quickly. I am a 21 year old male college student. Is this normal? I feel that I have had some issues getting/staying erect in the past. I have a solid diet, get plenty of sleep, and overall wouldn't say I'm too stressed or depressed.
Hi Dear, sometimes erection was lost during sex is normal phenomena. is this your first time exposure to sex? as when your girlfriend giving you head you lost erection is may be due to some anxiety feeling you have. as once you fail to perform you might have thought whether you performed next time or not? and this type of thought leads to loose erection. not to worry much about erection and first of all keep mind free of all the negative thoughts regarding sex and perform it. even if you feel not proper erection consult psychiatrist for proper counselling... Thank you
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Why Am I Losing My Erection?
Hi Dear, sometimes erection was lost during sex is normal phenomena. is this your first time exposure to sex? as when your girlfriend giving you head you lost erection is may be due to some anxiety feeling you have. as once you fail to perform you might have thought whether you performed next time or not? and this type of thought leads to loose erection. not to worry much about erection and first of all keep mind free of all the negative thoughts regarding sex and perform it. even if you feel not proper erection consult psychiatrist for proper counselling... Thank you