so, i m almost 22 and have a boyfriend. i lost my virginity last january. i have never gone to gynecologist and never had a pap test . my mom who used to home school me for about 11-12 years never told me about it and never took me there. i learned a little about it, and then i talked to two of my doctors. they said that i need a pap test next year. then now, my mom knows that i ve had sex and keeps telling me that my doctors are wrong and that i need a pap test now. she also said that if i didn t have a pap test until next year or never had one and if i had a disease, i could die next year. i m confused, so what should i do? i have a doctor appointment on the 27th before i move from washington state to south carolina sometime on the first week of june.