Dear Welcomem to HCM We understand your concerns I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. Sex is divine act and is a meditation. We forget ourself throughout the sexual journey and that is actual meditation. You should not involve in sex if you or your partner is tired, stressed. Sex should not be performed in a hurry and not during unworldly timing. Anxiety and presumptions about sex is also dangerous because they decrease your sexual ability. In most of the cases, prematurre ejaculation is due to psychological problems such as negative thinking, anxiety, stress and lack of sex education. Your case could be either of these. Let your wife come. Why be apprehensive? Why think that the same thing will happen again in future? Sex is not the life. See sex simply as a pleasure and not as essential thing and your problem is cured. You might need sexological counseling. Visit www.psychocure.webs.com for further details. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications. Good luck.