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What Is The Solution For Partner S Noncooperation To Sex?
Hello dr. Dr my name is vijay My wife is not co operate to sex, even one month gape to sex with her by the time of sex compile by me. She don t come to doctor.what should I do doctor. I am getting angry by time of not allow me.but I love her too much.
Hi there Vijay.
I chose to answer your question simply because you seem to be very much in love with your wife.
A lot of women have issues about sex & are not necessarily frigid.
It is possible it stems from a previous bad experience perhaps even in her childhood that has put her off sex. One needs to question her in more detail. Perhaps she is not willing to go to a doctor because she does not trust one to be discreet with her feelings. Perhaps you can get her to consult with me online using this portal but use the private 'one to one' consultation & you can request for me & then i may be better placed to help you both.
Be gentle with her. These things take time & you can win her with love & patience. Perhaps you can go on a short holiday. Her mood may be different when the surroundings/ambience changes.
What exactly do you mean by 'does not cooperate'? How often do you have sex? How long has been since you have been married? Any children? Do you live in a joint family or separate.
Please try & answer these questions so that i can help you better.
Good Luck & wish you a good sex life & happiness.
Dr Praveen Rodrigues MD
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What Is The Solution For Partner S Noncooperation To Sex?
Hi there Vijay. I chose to answer your question simply because you seem to be very much in love with your wife. A lot of women have issues about sex & are not necessarily frigid. It is possible it stems from a previous bad experience perhaps even in her childhood that has put her off sex. One needs to question her in more detail. Perhaps she is not willing to go to a doctor because she does not trust one to be discreet with her feelings. Perhaps you can get her to consult with me online using this portal but use the private one to one consultation & you can request for me & then i may be better placed to help you both. Be gentle with her. These things take time & you can win her with love & patience. Perhaps you can go on a short holiday. Her mood may be different when the surroundings/ambience changes. What exactly do you mean by does not cooperate ? How often do you have sex? How long has been since you have been married? Any children? Do you live in a joint family or separate. Please try & answer these questions so that i can help you better. Good Luck & wish you a good sex life & happiness. Dr Praveen Rodrigues MD