I am a 53 year old male, 5 11 and weight 195 lbs. I consider myself to be in relatively good health. Lost a kidney so only have one left. About 9 weeks ago I had unprotected vaginal sex with a lady for the first time. Until a day ago, I had no symptoms that would cause me to be concerned except that I found my pubic area to feel itchy sometimes. A few days ago I had an HIV test that came back negative. Last night I masturbated and when I woke up this morning I noticed some white blots in my underwear, first time I have noticed this. Since then I have been paying close attention and noticed upon my arrival from work that I had a whitish creamy discharge coming from my penis. Since then I almost constantly have the feeling that I need to pee. I do not experience any burning sensation when urinating, have no achy muscles, and have no pain or swelling what-so-ever in the pubic area. I did develop a cyst on my eyeball about 6-7 weeks ago, not sure of relevance though. Having done some research I am concerned that I may have contracted STD and plan on having test done asap. Is it normal for symptoms to appear after 9 weeks of infection? Should I be concerned? Thank you