Hello, So my boyfriend I think was bit by something possibly a spider on the right ear lobe. He has not done anything about it, but put ointment on it. It looked like 2 little bite marks on the inner part of the lobe & had turned swollen & red, also almost like bubble like spots on it that traveled up the ear & behind the ear on the neck. Now his gland on that side is swollen & on the other ear it feels like it has pressure? Please help?