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What causes sexual nervousness and how is it treated ?

Hi im 31year married women. my height is 5.5 and weight is 45.After marriage me and my husband dosenot have much sex so still i m virgin.whenever we try to get intemate i feel nervous and about the pain and i leave the place
Thu, 26 Jan 2012
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Hello Aruna,
Try and realax yourself, little bit of foreplay will definitly help you in this. Suggest that to your husband rather than directly having sex.Some amount of nervousness will be there ofr sometime initialy but that should not stop you from doing it .The more you delay it the more your anxiety is going to built up regarding intercourse.Try not to think of the pain while being intimate just relax.
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