I ve had sex for a 3 times till now with my boyfriend (and I was a virgin then). For the first time it was very painful, I was blooding as he penetrated in me, and according to blooding I thought that the hymen is now broken. But the second time it appeared the hymen is not broken at all, and it hurted the same as it was the first time, I was blooding even more than the first time, and in both attempts he could penetrate for just a half inside. If he was trying to go deeper in me it was painful for me. For the third time (the day after the second time) I was blooding only in the beginning of an intercourse, because of the bleeding of the yesterday s our attempt, but it was much less blood than the 1st and 2nd time. Still was hurting a bit while penetrating, and he couldn t put the whole penis in me. I felt no excitement at all while this. Like I am still not sure whether my hymen is broken or not, and I am asking how many times we should be doing sex when pain will finally disappear, and sex become plesure, not pain? How to know whether the hymen is finally broken? (is it when he could penetrate completely in me, without me feeling pain)