Please help. My husband has been suffering from ED for 13 years, He has a tumor on his pituitary gland. We have been to 2 Endocrinologist, 2 Urlogist & a holistic consultant also many years of marriage counciling. Nothing seems to work, maybe twice that I can remember the medication they had him on helped, but it only lasted maybe a month. We have never had a sexual relationship, not intamancy at all. He has no sexual desire what so ever. It has been a very difficult time for me, but I love my husband. He has completely given up. Last week he told me he does not love me anymore, which has completely devastated me, knowing what I have given up for him, my sexuality, my needs. He is on testosterone cream & thyroid medicine. What are the doctors missing? I don t understand why they cannot figure it out. It s almost like they don t care. What we hear from them is, well his levels look good so everything should be working, not sure why there not. Come back in 6 months. Now 13 years later my husband may want to divorce me. Please help.