hi..BOB, thanks for writing.. i have understood your concerns.. premature ejaculation can result from anxiety and stress person faces in daily routine life..particularly important is anxiety related to sexual performance and partner satisfaction..this is started after first failure in the bed..so it converts the worry in ruminating thought and finally depression... so, do not think that you have any problems and perform like you were unmarried person ...try to control your anxiety , by exercise, meditation and relaxation exercises.. masturbating frequently also causes the conditioning in which person develops a habit of ejaculating early..this is because of the technique of masturbation with rapid strokes which stimulates strongly..so avoid masturbating daily, keep it 2 times in a week.. premature ejaculation can be treated with behavioral techniques and drugs..i feel you shud consult a psychiatrist and ask for help..tell your problems in detail and he will guide you through the treatment.. behavioral techniques give long lasting effects but you have practice it regularly..for drugs you shud ask to psychiatrist.. i hope this will be helpful to you..best of luck..