Hello dear I understand your concern Your symptoms could be due to vaginal dryness, vaginal infection, hormonal imbalance, insufficient arousal, stress, anxiety. Take following advises: Spend more time in foreplay before the intercourse Avoid perfumed chemical and soap use vaginal moisturizing agents like VAGISIL after bath Use water based lubricant (K-Y gel) before sex. Maintain proper pelvic hygiene before and after sex Drink plenty of water, eat healthy diet. Do regualr exercise like walking and yoga. If not resolves then consult the gynecologist to rule the infection and take proper treatment. Hope this may help you Best regards Dr. Sagar